BDSM is a term often thrown around in discussions about many different sexual practises. It is somewhat unfortunate then, that it has such a vague definition. For some of the practitioners, the phrase can have quite different meanings, and what one-person views as quite extreme sexual activity others might view as fairly tame or normal. In a situation that finds so many things thrown in the same bucket, how do we actually clarify what is BDSM and what isn’t?

Furries is a term many people will have heard of. Unfortunately, it’s quite a vague one, so many people are somewhat confused about what it actually means. This is compounded further by petplay, as many people think they are basically the same.